Why We Need It
|A LITTLE GAME OF HAPPINESS|
There are times when the most sage advice will not brighten your attitudes or make you feel better.Any number of books you have read might fall short of boosting your morale really.You know that your thinking ,and your feeling is your own responsibility yet you tend to gravitate hypnotically towards deflating thoughts, memories,concepts,apprehensions.And you have tried every thing you know of, to elevate your spirits;including affirmations,yoga,calmness techniques.and the works.These are the precise moments for calling upon your ability to play a nice sport to perk your spirits.No need to go anywhere special,you can play it wherever you are present .Its just called the How-Nice-It-Is-Game.
You see when you force yourself to think positive sometimes your mind will resist the artificial pressure to feel good.On the other hand if you indirectly suggest something positive to your mind the impact is quite subtle and effective.So how do you play this subtly effective game to alter your mindstate?Well its really very simple. Just pick any wish,desire,aspiration or possibility and make a statement to yourself by prefixing “how nice it is” or “how nice it would be ” to whatever you are wishing. Effectively what you are doing is simply sliding a possibility in front your mind to chew upon and taste it ,without goading it ,or forcefully coercing it in any way.You are gently but surely releasing your desires into the cosmic mould,and the mind just loves working overtime on such “fleeting possibilities” ,to manifest them.
This game is also good to play when there is some disturbing subject on your “mind radar”.Interestingly if there is a wish that you want manifested you can try this process.It surely works at calming you down and sending out ‘pleasant waves’ into your thought atmosphere.Often,before you know it you end up feeling a lot more positive about life,and the world.
How To Play With Simple Statements
I am offering some interesting “how nice it would be” statements.They are gentle, yet oozing with promise of goodness.By themselves they are powerful enough to alter your outlook.Of course you are free to exercise your own creativity to come up with subjects more dear to you for playing this game.
Thoughts And Emotions
“How nice it would be if all my thoughts could be full of power and inspiration.How lovely it would be if my emotional response to everything in life were balanced,calm,happy,relaxed ,and fulfilled.”
“How nice it would be if all events of my life were to unfold exactly as I desired.And how nice it would be if I could remain calm,confident,patient and happy while I waited for my desires to unfold in their own good time!”
Response to Life
“How nice it would be if all my responses to life were calm and composed at all times, and full of strength.How nice it would be to be able to love and respect myself at all times while responding to circumstances.”
How nice it would be to feel capable always of handling situations and facing tasks confidently.How nice it would be to feel competent always.How nice it would feel to be in control always.
Fulfillment,Fortune Good Luck,Gratitude
“How nice it would be to constantly feel fortunate,to feel lucky ,fulfilled,and grateful about my life and the world at large.”
How nice it would be to feel spontaneous and balanced and be open to any eventuality;ready to meet it squarely.To be able to relax and yet to be under no compulsion to control outcomes obsessively.
“How nice it would be to feel great about myself,about my worthiness and about the good I deserve in life ,irrespective of outer circumstances.
“How nice it would be if I could believe in miracles lightly,easily;and because of my belief in miracles they could actually manifest!”
Constant Awareness of Positive Attitudes
“How nice it would be to be constantly aware that a high morale,fortunate,happy,calm ,composed,self loving ,feel good Positive Attitude is more important than all the wealth,all the knowledge,all opinions of society,achievements,planning , results and possibilities of this world”
Fearlessess Of The Future
“How nice it would be to live without any fear,worry ,apprehension,of the future;irrespective of any eventuality.”
Acceptance of My Uniqueness
“How nice it would be to feel okay and good about my uniqueness,accept it fully and not be under any complex,or need to ever compare myself with others.”
“How nice it would be to be able to meet all circumstances with an assurance
of capability,okayness,and confidence.To be constructive in contribution and be able to accomplish whatever I set out to do.How nice it would be to be an 'empowered rider' of life.
Extracting Advantage from Adversity
“How nice it would be to have faith in myself always to convert adversity to my advantage and always feel on top of things.”
Automatic Positive Thinking
“How nice it would be to possess a powerful attitude whereby all my thoughts are positive,pleasant,uplifting and encouraging, by default.Where,without any effort,I could remain hooked into positivity and constantly feel good.’
This is a game for your mind and it has proved extremely beneficial in umpteen cases .Only remember that when you are playing with these statements you just state them mentally(or aloud if you please) and let the implied possibility softly sink in.There is absolutely no need to push and shove.It works very well and you may amaze yoursef with your creativity hitting the right solution for yourself .
It's harmless.So give it a try.
That's it for now.Over to you my friend....